I 19[F] hooked up with a premature ejaculator and he didn’t even make it inside of me before he came

I recently met a guy on Tinder who we’ll call Adam. Turns out, he lives in my apartment complex just a few buildings down from me and just a short walk away. That makes it really easy to plan a meeting with him, so that’s nice. My Tinder profile is clear that I’m looking for casual relationships and hookups, so we both knew what our intentions were from the very start. We talked platonically for most of the day and then the conversation started to become more flirty and eventually sexual. I asked him if he wanted to come over sometime soon and of course he said he’d love to. We made plans for the next day.

After we made plans though, he said he wanted me to be aware of something because he was worried it might be an issue. He told me that he has a really bad problem with premature ejaculation and didn’t want to catch me off guard if he came really quickly. He was worried about it being a problem but I wasn’t worried about it at all. In fact, I was really intrigued by it and curious to see exactly what he meant. That isn’t something that would turn me off at all.

I assured him that it wasn’t a problem and I didn’t care. He said he can usually keep going after he cums though and tends to recover very quickly. He also told me that he was uncircumcised, and that interested me as well because he would be the first uncut guy I’ve ever been with (aside from one guy in a previous story of mine — but I only watched him jerk off, we didn’t do anything together). We’re in the U.S. so it’s pretty uncommon to find a guy who is uncircumcised around here, at least in my part of the country. I was excited for it though since it would be something new to me.

The next day at around 2pm, Adam texted me and asked if he could come over and I told him to give me a while so I could take a shower and then I’d let him know when to come. I took my shower, put on some clothes, and texted him. He said he was on his way and started to walk over from his apartment to mine.

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**Info, Appearance, and Clothing**

**Me**

I am 19 years old, white, 5’4, and fairly chubby with medium length brown hair and green eyes. I have big boobs, thick thighs, and a fat butt. I currently keep my pussy fully shaven. No tattoos and a bellybutton piercing.

I had on a dark red, low cut tanktop and a pair of pajama shorts with white and pink ankle socks. Underneath was a basic black bra and black cotton panties. No makeup on. Nothing special, just comfort clothes. I never really “dress up” for sex since it’s all coming off anyway.

**Adam**

He is 28 years old, white, roughly 5’10 or so, and has an average build with short brown hair and brown eyes. As I said before, he is uncircumcised and his dick is about 6 or so inches long and has decent thickness. He keeps the hair trimmed short but not shaven bald. He also has the biggest balls of any guy I’ve been with so far. I mean not huge or anything, but big. No tattoos or piercings. Light body hair on his arms, legs, and chest.

He had on a button down short sleeve shirt with a checker pattern that was black and dark green and black sweatpants with black ankle socks and sneakers. His underwear was tight boxer briefs (I think that’s right, but I’m not 100% sure of the difference) that were black with a white waistband.

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When Adam rang my doorbell I went to let him inside. We greeted one another and then he took his shoes off before we went to the couch and sat down next to one another. I pulled my legs up and turned to face him with my elbow resting on the back of the couch. We just sat there talking and getting to know one another for about 30 minutes until finally I suggested we go to the bedroom. We got up and went to my room and laid down on the bed where I cuddled up close to him and turned on my side with my leg up over his crotch and his arm around me.

We talked a little more and then made out for about 15 minutes straight, which was the longest continuous kiss I’ve ever had. There have been a few that were close but I believe this was the longest. He was a great kisser too. Our kiss was slow and passionate and by the end of it all I was super turned on.

When we broke apart I rolled over away from him and sat up, pulling my tanktop off and tossing it aside. Then I unhooked my bra and removed it as well before I laid down on my back and lifted my hips so I could pull off my shorts and panties. I got them off and then I was totally naked except for my socks. I know there isn’t a lot of build up there, but I just really wanted to get naked right away. Adam also took his shirt off and then laid down next to me so he could bury his face into my left breast and nurse on my nipple for a while.

He did that for about 5 minutes as I gently rubbed the back of his head. After some time, he kissed down my body as he moved down the bed until he got down on his stomach between my legs and wrapped his arms around my thighs. He kissed all over my inner thighs and then started to eat me out. He went slowly, but very hungrily. Just like with kissing, he was very good at eating pussy. He didn’t stop until I came, and I lasted maybe somewhere around 5-6 minutes before I got close.

“Ohhh fuck I’m about to cum,” I groaned.

He kept going, swirling his tongue in circles around my clit as the pressure built inside of me and soon I peaked and erupted into orgasm. I let out a deep moan and my muscles seized as the pleasure flowed through me. He held onto my thighs while they shook beneath his grasp. Once it had subsided he kept eating my pussy for another 15 or so seconds until pulling his head up just a little and looking me in the eye.

“Can I fuck you?” He asked me.

“Yes.”

He quickly moved off of the bed and stood up so he could take his pants off. He pulled them down along with his underwear and then got back onto the bed. Like me, he was also still only wearing his socks. I moved into the center of the bed and angled my shoulders and head up on a stack of pillows. I put my feet flat on the bed with my knees pointed up to the ceiling and legs spread apart. He looked at me, took a deep breath, and moved between my legs on his knees.

He held onto my right thigh with his left hand as he shimmied closer and held the base of his cock with his other hand. He sighed deeply again and I could tell he was struggling with something. He had this look on his face that seemed focused and even a bit panicked. He just knelt there, holding my thigh and his cock while he looked down at me. The tip of his dick was about 4 inches or so away from my pussy. His breathing was getting heavier and shakier and he didn’t move any closer to me yet. I was a little bit concerned because I had forgotten what he told me about him being a premature ejaculator so at first I was worried that he was having a panic attack or something. I wasn’t yet thinking about how he might be fighting back the urge to cum, especially since he hadn’t even done anything yet.

“What’s wrong?” I asked him softly after about 5 seconds of him just kneeling there, unmoving and controlling his breathing.

“Nothing I just — nothing, sorry,” he said, trying to brush it off but his voice was nervous and a little shaky.

“Okayyy,” I said, a bit suspicious. After I replied I suddenly realized what might be happening, but I didn’t say anything.

He gave one more deep sigh and started to slowly press his cock closer to my pussy. His breathing got more ragged and heavy than ever. He guided his dick and his tip pressed through my lips up near my clit and he started to slide it down so he could get inside of me. Midway through that movement, however, he suddenly pulled back away from me a few inches and softly gasped a few times.

“Ah fuck,” he said, sounding panicky and embarrassed.

“What’s the matter?” I teased him in a playful, intentionally soft and sultry voice. I knew what was wrong.

Almost immediately after I spoke he groaned and quickly thrusted his hips forward so his dick was hovering over my crotch and pointing forward towards my stomach. Then he instantly started to cum, still just holding the base of his dick and pointing it up over my body.

“Ohp!” I yelped softly as the first shot erupted out of him. I small grin formed across my face as I watched. I had been expecting it a little, but it was still surprising that it actually happened.

He came an absolute ton. Way, way more than I’ve ever had a guy cum on me. My upper body was lying at a slight angle raised above my hips, and his dick was pointed at an upward angle as well. The first shot came out with a lot of force and shot all the way up above my breasts, around my neckline with some falling across my right boob. Two more similar pumps followed and plastered my breasts. 3 or 4 more hefty shots came out all over my stomach, scattering patches of cum all around. Even still, a couple of smaller pumps squirted onto the lower part of my stomach and finally the last little bit oozed out of him as he slowly jerked himself off and milked it out of himself. A thick strand of cum connected the head of his cock to my pelvis and soon broke away from him and pooled on my skin. Then, he was finished.

He had been groaning throughout it all. His cum started to dribble down the sides of my stomach, running through the crevices between the rolls of my belly. It ran down off the sides of my breasts and in between them. There was a tiny bit in mu bellybutton but there was a lot of cum all across my body. I loved it. Being came on like this is one of my favorite things so I really enjoyed the sight of it all splattered across me.

“Wow,” I said in awe. “Well that was crazy. You didn’t even make it inside of me!”

“I know, I know,” he said, sounding genuinely distraught. “Fuck. I’m so sorry.”

“It’s okay! Seriously, that was awesome,” I assured him. “Don’t worry about it. I thought that was really hot.”

“I’ve *never* finished that fast before. I haven’t had sex in a while though so — I don’t know. Sorry,” he said, frazzled.

“I could tell you were in trouble before you even tried,” I teased him.

“I was,” he chuckled, seeming a little less upset now. “I can keep going if you want.”

“Keep going? You never even got started,” I giggled, still keeping my teasing and playful tone. “Go for it.”

“Do you want me to go get you something to wipe off with first?” He offered.

“Nope. Leave it on me,” I answered. “For now.”

“Alright,” he said, giving me a small smile.

He was still hard and moved his dick down until he slipped inside of me. He let out a deep sigh as he pressed in deeper and then gave a few slow, gentle thrusts back and forth. After about 10 seconds of that he leaned over me and wrapped his arms around the back my head as he repositioned his legs and body into a better position. He pressed his lips to mine and started to make out with me as his hips moved back and forth. He was almost entirely inside of me and only made slight thrusts with his hips but we stayed like that, slowly kissing as he kept on fucking me.

Honestly, I think this was some of the best penetrative sex I’ve ever had. He’s a good size, a nice thickness, a great kisser, and I was still covered in his cum. It was just really, really nice — both physically and intimately. (And yes I specified penetrative sex because I have moments I enjoyed more which didn’t involve penetration). This continued for probably just over 2 minutes until he broke his lips away from mine by just a few inches and spoke.

“I can cum inside of you right?” He asked.

“Yes.”

“I’m close.”

He moved back in and continued kissing me as his hips kept of moving. Our kiss deepened and he breathed heavily through his nose as our lips and tongues played passionately with one another. Soon, while still kissing me, he grunted and thrusted as deep as he could go inside of me and held his position there as he came. I could feel it shooting off inside of me but it didn’t seem to be a huge amount, since had had already came a few minutes prior. He just lightly bucked his hips and trembled over top of me throughout his orgasm and when he was finished he started thrusting again. About 15 seconds later he pulled away from me and sat back, kneeling between my legs. He rubbed my pussy with his hand and then fingered me for a short time before moving saying he had to go to the restroom. I told him to bring me a washcloth on his way back. He went and used it and then came back and laid down next to me. I wiped some off of myself with my fingers and licked them clean, but after doing that a few times I just wiped myself off with the washcloth. When I dried it all up I went to use the restroom as well where I wet a different washcloth and wiped down more thoroughly, using my hand towel to dry off with.

When I came back we laid down and cuddled for a while, just talking. We discussed the fact that he cums fast and some things we could try in the future. He was really into the idea of me trying out a bunch of different ways I could get him off, aside from handjobs, oral, or penetration. He understood by this point that I was really into that aspect of him so he was leaning into it and not embarrassed at all anymore. I thought that him being such an easy cummer would open up some interesting possibilities. I won’t explain what all we discussed because I’ll likely be making this into a series of stories as we go and whatever we explore will be explained then. It should be a lot of fun and I’m excited to see him more. We made plans to have him come over again soon.

For about an hour we just hung out, cuddling. We kissed, talked, and he sucked on my nipple for a short time. Eventually he said he was going to head home for the night and then got up and got dressed. I walked him to the door while I was still naked, kissed him, and we said our goodbyes. He left and I went to take a shower. When I was done with that I laid down in bed and started writing this story. That’s what I’ve been doing ever.

**Edit (made just before posting)**

*I wrote this story a little while back and have been holding onto it because I wanted to wait until I have 3 stories in this series before I started posting. That way I’ll already have things lined up. We just had our third meeting the day before writing this note so I’ll be writing about that soon. I already have the story of our second meeting written and it will be posted sometime this week. We tried an interesting method during that meeting and it was a lot of fun. I’m excited to try out more ways of doing it and if you want to follow along just check back for any future posts!*

*Feel free to message me if you have any suggestions to how I could try getting him off! I can’t promise that we’ll actually do it but if it’s an interesting idea then we’ll definitely consider it. It needs to be something that we would physically be able to do. Not looking for fantasy scenarios — it should be a physical thing we could do. Feel free to make it unique, odd, or strangely specific. I’m open to most things and he is as well. I already have a list of things I want to try but I’m always open to adding some things onto it.*

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/wjo1xu/i_19f_hooked_up_with_a_premature_ejaculator_and

31 comments

  1. Fuck, meeting a guy like that is literally my fantasy.

    You should lick his dick like a tootsie pop and see how many licks it takes. Maybe /r/orgasmcontrol would have more ideas.

  2. Good of you to help him out!
    I too “struggle” with premature ejaculation, I be been with a few girls who finds it annoying but most of them seem to enjoy it just like you, and just like your guy I either recover really quickly or I never go soft so I can keep going for a long time after I cum the first time.

    Before I met my fiancee I actually had quite good control over myself, one way is to distract my mind with maths whenever I get close. However with my fiancee I don’t stand a chance, it’s something about her pussy that makes me cum really fast no matter what I do. But as long as I’m not too tired I can keep going

    Keep encouraging him, tell him to try to think of other things than “don’t cum don’t cum don’t cum” because his brain only hears “cum cum cum”

  3. Nice story. I love how you just went with his premature ejaculation and turned it into a positive. Most women would not be wise enough or sensitive enough to do so.

    Would be great if you could get him to cum without any physical contact. Have him watch you play with yourself and see if you can make him cum without him touching himself

    Another idea….If he’s sub forbid him to cum and and tease him. See how long he can hold out and then punish him when he does

  4. For anyone who cums too quickly….If you live in a medicinal marijuana state, Pot is the answer. Not too much and the hybrid strains work the best. Makes me stupid hard, horny and go forever with the most amazing orgasms. Can also go a second time without a break which is something I’ve never been able to do before.

  5. Super sexy. I am not a premature ejaculator, but when orgasms aren’t the finish line, just stops along the journey, it opens up so many pleasure Avenues.

    If he wants to try and last longer, he can do edging to train himself to hold off. Or you can just play as you did.

    My partner likes to use my cock as a pacifier, she takes me into her mouth soft, I get hard, and she sucks me until I get close, then with your guy you can stop, and let him relax. Then repeat over and over.

    I gotta say, mad props to you as a partner. Great way to work with his situation

  6. Good on you for being so supportive I hope to meet someone like you one day as I can’t last 10 seconds of a bj let alone penatrive sex. and I’m kind of worried meeting women for this reason

  7. Wow, that’s a good story. Eons ago, I slept with a guy who could cum fast… though not that fast. He still lasted 5-10 minutes. But he never got soft and could keep going. I miss those days! Guys who do casual (here in Aust) don’t like to cuddle. I think they’re afraid I’ll catch feelings so they jump up immediately after cumming, get dressed and leave. I’ve developed an anti-cuddle and hugging mentality because of it. But reading about it makes me kinda miss being able to cosy up to someone after sex. I think I only ever do it with one or two guys, the ones whom I’ve known for a while though it’s very rare these days as casual sex isn’t common anymore. But it takes effort now as I trained myself not to.

    Something about your story made me smile and chuckle; it sounds like an amazing adventure and I hope you have more with him :)

  8. You’re a saint for the way you show you are 100% ok and even welcoming of his condition. I’m impressed that he cums with no physical stimulation… We’ve all been there where a partner starts to touch or stroke us and it’s game over.

    Very hot you gave him the green light to finish inside you. Hope you get the full first load inside you soon

  9. This was cute and also really hot! I know a lot of guys are anxious about this sort of thing, but there are so many ways to enjoy sex that don’t involve P-in-V that it shouldn’t be a mark of shame. He went down on you and got you off before even attempting penetration, so he clearly cared about your pleasure. I hope people can continue to learn that sex can be good and enjoyable no matter what shape or form it takes.

  10. Hot story you’re a great girl. What’s good about being quick on the trigger as if somebody wants a quickie it’s always a quickie

  11. Jesus you think you have enough context there Tolkien, ok so he didn’t make it in, move on your 19 there’s billions of cocks out there

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