This is kind of an in-between part. I’m basically up to date and everything that happens from now on is happening as I write it… Pretty much.
To this point I did the best I could dramatizing recent events into a story format and remembering as much as I could with what was said, pulling from text messages and The events that unfolded over the last few weeks.
So, I finally caved and told her she could go on this date. That means tomorrow night she’s going. I’m fucking nervous. I don’t totally know what to expect. The truth is, hearing his name all the time was beginning to annoy me and the only way to get her to stop talking about him was to say that she could go. Seriously, it was like Donovan this and Donovan that. When I did finally say that she could go out with him I didn’t really think that anything could happen but now I’m starting to doubt that.
I’m prepared emotionally, I think. Yes it is my fantasy and now it is actually in motion but I also have read about guys who had this fantasy and then it really happened and they felt completely different than they thought they would.
Also, my wife went shopping yesterday with a friend. No doubt she was buying something to wear, outfits. This friend is unrelated to her job at the gym but still, I wonder if she told her friend about it. I did look at my bank account to see where she shopped. I saw that she bought from H&M, Gap and the Lingerie Shoppe. I’m not sure if that’s for me or for her date.
I’m really nervous and very anxious. My heart rate has been spiking ever since I gave her the all clear. It’s definitely scary but it’s also a huge turn on for me. Just hope that it continues to feel like that if anything happens.
I will continue with the story as things unfold now that we are in real time.
Would love to know what you guys think. Thoughts on what you think may happen. What do you think’s going through her mind?
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/uj4n7b/mf_a_married_life_experience_the_date_is_on_friday
Bottom line is both are in love with each other and both are honest. Tell her how you feel (you have shared your fantasies with her) and listen to her (she wants to start fulfilling the fantasies) . Key is honesty from the heart and clear communication to fulfilling each of your desires and the both of you will become closer than ever before
This is always the hardest part. My ex-GF went on a date with a woman one evening. Not knowing if she was kissing her or engaging in sex while they were out was killing me. After about three hours, she texted that they were heading back to my place. They both walked in talked to me for a few minutes and then went in my second bedroom to play with each other. I sat in my bedroom and then the living room and could hear them going at it. I so wanted to go in there and join them, but I wanted to respect the boundary we had set. After an hour or so they both came out of the bedroom smiling, tired. I walked the woman down to her car and then hightailed it back inside. My ex-GF was lying naked in my bed. I reclaimed her pussy and body for the next couple hours
Just a thought reading your story. It feels like you aren’t 100% on board with this now that it’s real, and what started as your fantasy she was fulfilling (though I argue that because she found a guy who turned her on, and remembered your fantasy after the fact in order to get permission…example…if this were about you, no timeline would have been given for you to be comfortable and no guy would have been preselected…just my opinion) feels like it’s now more what your wife wants. My advice is to pull your approval back until you guys have really communicated about this. Set boundaries and be totally on board. Because once it’s done, it’s done. There’s no going back. And if you have a problem after she will say it was your idea, your fantasy and you gave permission so there can’t be an issue. And right now, she would be right. Some fantasy’s are just those, they turn you on but you don’t actually want to experience them beyond your own fantasy. Good luck.
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