[M] Anal: A Love Story

Not so long ago, a friend of mine asked me jokingly “what’s so good with anal?”, and it got me thinking why I am so into it.

I still remember my first encounter with it. I was in 7 or 8th grade I think, and a friend was laughing because someone was “sodomizing a pillar”. He asked me if I knew what sodomizing meant, and of course, I said yes without having any clue except it was most probably sexual. So I looked it up in the dictionary (I’m that old apparently) and finally found out what it was, while not really understanding it I guess.

At this time, I was lucky enough to already have access to the internet at home, and while I wasn’t masturbating or watching porn yet, I was still having fun looking at old school explicit comic books (Manara stuff mostly) online.
And that’s when I think it connected in my brain, watching those images and remembering that “sodomizing” thing: THERE’S A SECOND HOLE DOWN THERE!

A few months later, I watched my first porn and, thank god for French porn, there was anal in it! I remember really enjoying it, and understanding already that it wasn’t supposed to happen, and that it needed some trust and time.

I saw those women enjoying themselves with things up their bums, so I started exploring myself anally thanks to my perfectly sized hairbrush. It wasn’t doing that much to me physically, but dear god, the mental pleasure was so intense. Thinking about that forbidden thing I was doing was getting me off so well.

But this wasn’t as satisfying as imagining myself assfucking a girl. This populated my masturbation sessions for years (and still does).
I really wanted to try it, but knew I would have to be patient for it to happen. It’s not something that is advertised as wildly popular.

It finally happened when I was 18 and separated with my high school girlfriend. I found out about a swingers website, and on the same day, found a couple and met them in a forest close to my parents’ place. And the woman loved anal sex. I was so excited!

We had a lot of fun together (that’s a hot story for another time though), and while we were doing a double vaginal penetration, she asked me to slide in her ass. Finally it was the moment I had long waited for!

It was already pretty dark in the woods, couldn’t really see what was happening, and since I had no experience with either anal or double penetrations, it took me quite some time (a few minutes) to finally manage to find the way in. It got us laughing pretty hard!

And there it was, the first time a woman would trust me enough to play with her ass, and it was glorious! Combining my first DP with my first anal will always be a fond memory of mine. And also hearing from an experienced swinger couple (they were 40 with a daughter my age) that they were surprised by my skills and openness despite my inexperience was a major ego boost and probably an explanation for my self-confidence when it comes to group plays.

I had the chance over the following years to explore more about anal plays, with different partners, either as a top or a bottom, with both women and men, and my love for anal only grew further. I realized that for me, contrary to what I had read online from men, it’s not so much the sensations that make me enjoy it so much, but more the mental aspect and what it represents.
I discovered the glorious combination of D/s dynamics and anal sex, and as expected, it was a mind-blowing.

Having this kind of control over someone drives me crazy and probably gives me the most pleasure.

Anal has been my strongest kink for more than half of my life now, and I’m lucky enough to have a partner who enjoys it as much as I do. So much that we’re actually having anal sex more often that vaginal sex.
And I thought that with my experience of it, I can now finally figure out why I love it so much:

* It is not the “normal” way to have sex
* When penetrating someone anally, I have the control, therefore the power, linking it to BDSM
* It requires a lot of trust for my partners (connection and trust are a major kink of mine), especially when inexperienced with it, to willingly explore those plays
* I can inflict pain or pleasure with it. It’s a punishment or a reward
* Introducing someone to anal (initiating people, another major kink)
* Anal sex isn’t gendered
* The face and the moans of my partners change drastically while doing anal
* While I like anal sex to be very clean, the mental aspect of it being dirty really works for me when doing ass-to-mouth
* Gaping!
* Double penetrations!

Maybe you’ll recognize yourself in my story, maybe it will give you some new ideas or will get you into anal plays, but in any case, anal sex with people you trust is a delight!

Enjoy your butts people!

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/n9za4b/m_anal_a_love_story