Author: SexWithFun

[M] “It takes one to know one”…

… is something I heard a friend saying to me not long ago. I think I was saying something along the lines of “why is it so fun to play with sluts?”, and that was her answer to me.

I first thought that this would be the perfect title for a writing on Fetlife. And it got me thinking about my relationship with sluts.

First, I feel like I should define what is a slut to me in a sexual setting.

A slut is someone of any gender, who, in that moment, just lives to be used and slightly abused, with the only purpose of pleasing their partners’ kinky minds. The slut is restless and never gets enough.

And for sure, I’ve been labeling myself a slut for quite some years already. With the right kinky people with filthy minds, I just start craving pleasing them. I get to be my slutty self, and think “what can I do to make them hornier, filthier, lose their mind?”.

But I’m not just a slut. I’m a slut who enjoys, above all, playing with sluts of the slutsterhood.

I’m a social slut! Read more »

[M] Anal: A Love Story

Not so long ago, a friend of mine asked me jokingly “what’s so good with anal?”, and it got me thinking why I am so into it.

I still remember my first encounter with it. I was in 7 or 8th grade I think, and a friend was laughing because someone was “sodomizing a pillar”. He asked me if I knew what sodomizing meant, and of course, I said yes without having any clue except it was most probably sexual. So I looked it up in the dictionary (I’m that old apparently) and finally found out what it was, while not really understanding it I guess.

At this time, I was lucky enough to already have access to the internet at home, and while I wasn’t masturbating or watching porn yet, I was still having fun looking at old school explicit comic books (Manara stuff mostly) online.
And that’s when I think it connected in my brain, watching those images and remembering that “sodomizing” thing: THERE’S A SECOND HOLE DOWN THERE!

A few months later, I watched my first porn and, thank god for French porn, there was anal in it! I remember really enjoying it, and understanding already that it wasn’t supposed to happen, and that it needed some trust and time. Read more »

[group] How I ended up sucking two cocks at a fetish party with my girlfriend watching and making me choke

Hey guys!

I wanted to share a story that happened to me/us last Saturday.

Disclaimer: it’s mostly gay stuff happening!

We went to Wasteland, a famous fetish party in Amsterdam (actually the biggest fetish party in Europe, twice a year) with friends.

The party was hot as hell as usual, people wearing such sexy and kinky outfits. Though there were sensibly less people than usual, and less people were having sex it seemed.

But still, it was awesome because it means it was less crowded, we took some time to chat with people and browse around all the different atmosphere.

And then, something happened while we were about to leave. There are several play areas, either darkrooms or more open rooms, and there is actually one next to the exit, very well lit, and you can see everything that is happening in the room thanks to a glass wall.

We stopped to have a look at the action there, and that’s when I noticed a girl, wearing a sexy catwoman-like mask, giving head to her partner on a bed, literally just in front of us, on the other side of the window. Read more »