Friday night is date night, has been every week for all 7.5 years of our marriage. Once the kids came around we started to do more “at home” dates, and with Covid restrictions, that’s basically all it is now. Order food, have some drinks, watch a movie or play a game. Typically the evening ends in lengthy, and occasionally kinky, sexual adventures (as opposed to the quicker ones we fit in during the week)
Last week Friday, I stayed at work for a bit having some beers with the team. During that time, we started talking about how all the singles at work are on Tinder. Later that evening, after a few drinks, I was telling my wife about the conversations and some of the hilarious profiles we saw. Neither her nor I have ever used Tinder (been together since High School). She looked at me with that lust that she only gets when feeling naughty and seriously asked me if it’d be weird if her and I looked at Tinder together, just for fun. I kinda tried to laugh it off at first (she’s typically insanely jealous and wouldn’t ever suggest something like that), thinking it may be a trap. But she asked again and I admitted that it might be fun.
So we set her up on a Tinder account. She was struggling to pick pictures for her profile, so I selected a few workout ones that showed off her fairly well. She giggled and told me it was too much, but I told her it was harmless. From there, we spent way too long swiping left and right together, looking at all the local guys. The more she drank, the more open she got about who she found attractive, and every time she got a match she got visibly excited. Guys started messaging her, but she was too shy to message back, instead we stuck to just reading the comments they wrote , complimenting her and her body. Eventually I convinced her to set her profile as “Bi”, and we began scrolling women online as well. Listening to my wife talk about the guys and girls she found attractive was a huge turn on!
Needless to say, the sex we had that night was incredible. She was so insanely turned on that our clothes were off long before we got to the bedroom. We haven’t talked about it much since, but it was definitely a fun twist on date night.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/n5ril9/mf_my_wifes_first_time_on_tinder
Do you think you’ll try to open the marriage?
Is there a possibility for a hall pass for either of you. That was cool I will have to try that with my wife as well.
This is a gone wild story that I foresee ending badly. OP you may have dun goofed.
I hope I’m wrong.
Thanks so much for sharing. This was awesome. My dream to have even that kind of sex, let alone a partner with that kind of imagination…
Have you tried talking to her about her past physical relationship before you met her, and see how you felt!
Check out /r/hotpast