I met this girl in my second job out of college. She is sweet and very formal with a serious and only ever boyfriend. She is not super hot or model but definitely all men around her want her. She has something that attracts men. Nevertheless she is somehow pretty and very friendly with everyone. I was not the exemption.
We were friends, went out with coworkers and slowly I got in her radar, I had a girlfriend at the time but I was young and did not care. Finally after like a year we ended fucking in a hotel.
we become like booty call for each other. Sometimes I call her and sometimes she call me to fuck. We can hang out in front of others like just friends. Very few people know about our ongoing affair. Well, it has been since 2004 and counting. I have been through different relationships, I have a 12 yo daughter and I am married now. She has a 5 yo daughter with her forever boyfriend. The guys job has been always out of the city or country since she ever mentioned first time to me. We give support each other, meet for holidays and give gifts each other and for our kids. She likes to experiment with me. She is super kinky and like to be spanked. She offers me rim job, I buy toys for her etc. Anything in the table but mostly just really fucking. She always says to me that she won’t be able to do that with anybody else not even with her forever partner. We don’t really look forward to be in a relationship together since at times we have been single at the same time (she has broken with her boyfriends for a few periods through the years but always go back together). It so weird, she comes to me and tell me all her issues and we fuck and I give her advices for her relationship. Also, she was there went I broke with my daughters mom and went I got married with somebody else showing me genuinely she is happy for me. I can’t believe my longest relationship has been with my mistress. Not sure if we will ever stop. I feel like as we became adults we are more clear about each other and we will continue our adventure.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/i5v5cn/my_longest_relationship_has_been_with_my_friend
Does your wife know?
Sounds similar to me and my FWB. We started when we were 14 and only stop when we’re dating someone. I’m about to turn 26 and am engaged, so nothing is going on anymore, but if I called him right now, he’d be down. The sex was nice, but at times we were toxic towards one another due to feelings emerging but nothing ever coming of it.
Hi David, im very interested to know more about your story because im currently in a very similar predicament. What happens when feelings got involved? We all know that for a such fwb to work, and work for so long, theres a certain degree of chemistry and feelings involved. How do you guys deals with it when things became kinda sour?