A little more than 24 hours ago, I made a life-changing decision and had the best night of my existence. Enough that I want to write about it and share it. And I already want and need more.
My vitals: straight male, mid-30's, mid-divorce. 5'9", about 250. If I were into men, I guess you could say I'd be a bear. I've had some experience with kink and non-monogamy, but since getting divorced and moving near a major northeastern city, I've decided I want to explore these more. I know I'm a dominant person who isn't all that big on physical monogamy, but in terms of actually playing, I haven't done much.
As it turns out, my ex-girlfriend from college, Carrie, had also gone on the same journey (divorce, sexual exploration). However, she joined a couple of swinging groups in her area (which was closer than I expected) and has blossomed big-time. A while ago, she mentioned that she was going to be dancing in a stripping contest at one of those groups. Back when we dated, Carrie wasn't exactly repressed, but she's gone headlong into kink, so I desperately wanted to see her in a new light. And have some fantastic sex, of course.