Lola almost caused my last relationship to end before it ever really began.
I met Lola on Tinder. At the time we first matched, she explained she was in a relationship with a cuckold boyfriend. Having experience with group play in the past, this was not a deterrent to me in the least. As we talked more in the days and weeks ahead, she shared photos and videos her boyfriend had taken with other men.
Around the same time I was texting with Lola, I had begun seeing a girl named Cara. We had gone on a few dates and had hit it off.
Over the course of two months, Cara and I saw each other often but never had a discussion about being monogamous. I assumed she was seeing other guys (she had even traveled to Asia to visit one during the time we were seeing each other). But apparently my thoughts on where we stood were misguided.
One night I had taken a nap and was awoken by Cara collecting her things from my room. She announced she was heading home without explanation. It seemed sudden, and I suspected there was more to the story. Minutes later I received a call from Cara, sobbing and angry.