Full disclosure: My GF and I have been in a great relationship for over nearly five years now, by far the healthiest and most fulfilling relationship I’ve ever been in. However, our sex life has always been our highest point of tension. We are on completely different rhythms (as in, when my libido is down, hers is at its peak, and vice versa) and she doesn’t share most of my kinks. In the past, she was also somewhat bothered by my ambiguous sexuality. All that pales in face of the fact that she believes I cheated on her last spring. While I was never unfaithful, I did flirt a lot with someone back then (topic for another time) and she never quite believed that nothing else happened. Regardless, let’s just say it put a hell of a damper on our sexual intimacy.
For a general picture, I’m a 163 cm and 59 kg (that’s roughly 5’4″ and 130 lbs) athletic mid-short haired redhead. My girlfriend, a lithe 175 cm and 64 kg (~5’9″, 141 lbs) blonde with gorgeous long hair. Though she is taller, I’ve always assumed a more dominant role in our sex life. Important detail, my girlfriend is usually very romantic, she usually prefers long passionate sex (I like it too, mind you), and she’s one of those person that firmly believes kissing is more intimate than actual sex.