So, this happened in undergrad. I was in a long term relationship that everyone knew was bad except me. Slowly but surly I started seeing the signs. In reality I saw them all along but could admit to them for fear of being alone. I somehow convinced myself she was the best I could do and no one else would want me. That is until one night at a party.
My girlfriend hosted the party and all our friends were invited. A lot of drinking was going on. As the party was winding down I realized my girlfriend had passed out in her be with one of her roommates (female). Nothing going on just sleeping. This meant I was regulated to the couch as I was way too drunk to drive home. One of the last people at the party was a good friend of mine (we will call her Mia). As the party was slowing down she and I talked one on one like we usually did at these things. That night she was the last to leave. Our school offered a drunk bus that you could request by text message. She sent her text and I website her to wait on the bus. On the way their our conversation turned to my relationship. I confessed my fear and she tried and fail to convince me I was wrong. As we sat wait for the bus, she said “what if I can show you that you are wrong about someone else want you.” To which I said “How?” She leaned over and kissed me and the sparks flew. I was instantly hard and she knew it.