For a longer time my wife asked if i would like to go to a swingers club. She had fantasies about being exhibitionist and show her sexuality and body for others to see and have sex while others watched.
We both like kinky play but not using whips or other inflictment of pain. Bondage and edging is our kink. I had looked where we could go and found a club where quite some bdsm couples also meet. I send an email to the club owner and asked a few questions wich she gladly answered. In our playing we switch depending on the mood.
Ellen had a few times where she drove me nuts for days, denying me an orgasm. Time for me getting back at her. I emailed the clubowner a question about setting up a cage in the middle of the lounge area they have. She was fine with that and promised there would be one waiting for us. She would also invite regular bdsm couples and tell them about my idea of having Ellen in the cage naked and have her beg for everything. If she would be thirsty, beg, when hungry, beg etc. We agreed to a night it all would come together.