With the advice of a friend, I decided to look into Fetlife for a lover. AFF and Ashley Madison weren’t really doing it for me, I had some success with Craigslist…but they didn’t seem to last long. Not to mention I wanted to explore a different side of me…a Dom sense that was emerging from within.
So, I did as I usually would and sent out a few feeler emails to women around my area that caught my eye. Some of them were out of my league or comfort zone, but hey…you never know right? Then I came to her profile. The pic she used on her profile was different from the rest. There was this classy throwback to a 1940’s roundtoe heel set in front of a motorcycle engine backdrop. That feminine look with the power background was all I needed.
I sent her a very simple email, letting her know that I was new to Fetlife and told her just enough about myself in hopes that it would make her interested. I got my reply a few days later and we began the dance. Little messages on Fetlife from day to day lead to conversations on google chat. Soon we were talking late in the night and early in the morning, before long we set up a date to have a few drinks and a friendly chat before we actually played.