Long time lurker, my wife and I finally decided we wanted to share one of our most memorable adventures.
**The Fantasy List**
This started with my wife and I visiting a popular website that allowed you to take a quiz and match what you were into sexually. We did it mostly for a laugh, but what we discovered was that both of us answered almost uniformly ‘I’d be down with that if my partner was’.
After that we’d have discussions/play games where we’d talk about fantasies. We would go through the list of things that we both liked and decide if it fell into the category of ‘Something I actually want to do’ (She loves taking facials for example, I like watching her touch herself), or ‘Something we’re more interested in fantasizing about than actually doing’
The biggest fantasy we both had in the later category was different forms of group sex. After a few of these discussions, we decided that we were both most into having an threesome with another man. The way it kept coming up, we decided that it would be the first thing we’d ever try to move from ‘The Fantasy List’ to ‘Thing we actually try’. We decided to see if we could try it on our next vacation.