G had found me on Hinge about a week ago. His profile seemed genuine and he had the most adorable smile. G is 27, about 5”6, light brown eyes, light brown hair that was cut short but not too short, he’s half-European and half-Asian but he mostly looks Caucasian, his Asian heritage means he has barely any hair and his skin is so smooth and soft. His smile and bubbly personality is what made me want to meet him in person. There are some photos of me on my profile, I have light brown hair and blue eyes. When G asked me if I was kink-friendly I got a little nervous. I’m still very vanilla in my mind, but I’ve learned some interesting things about myself by trying new things.
I’m usually very submissive and also normally very ticklish, especially around my feet… he wanted to massage and worship my feet, and he wanted to be dominated by me… completely foreign territory for me. I spent the next few days reading up on D/S dynamics and looking for examples of material I could use. I couldn’t find anything that resonated with me, I was getting frustrated so decided to look inside myself at my submissive side and pick out things I like that might work for him.