So me and my girlfriend had not been dating very long when this story took place, we had just started hanging out more at each others place, it was at this fun and exciting early stage of an relationship when everything felt new. And I’m not sure about you guys, but we were not very good at being open and communicative about our kinks and fantasies early on. Maybe it was because we were unexperienced, or just not comfortable with sharing too much. I know I wasn’t, and my girlfriend for sure was not either.
So let me tell you it came as a shock when I found out that my girlfriend had some sort of orgasm control fetish, but I guess I should have picked up on a few of the signs. Whenever we had sex she always asked:
“Can I cum?” or “Do you want me to cum?” while looking right into my eyes.
Well, I did not pick up on the signs very well. Instead, each time I replied with a simple “yes, of course!” or something like that, I guess I just didn’t understand why she wouldn’t want to cum?