Men are so fucking weird.
I’ve had exactly one dude openly ask me to peg him without any awkwardness. Meanwhile, 4 men I dated have indeed wanted to be pegged.
I actually don’t blame men for this. I think there’s an unjustified stigma I will not be unpacking at this time. Anyway, it makes men feel weird about asking.
Anyway, onetime I was dating a dude who was a bit fascinated by my sexual history. He wasn’t even particularly jealous or weird about it, he just want to hear my stories.
Onetime we were sitting on the couch and in some show we were watching someone mentioned using a butt plug on her boyfriend.
“Oh my god, can you imagine doing that?”
I didn’t even bother looking up from my phone. “What? A butt plug?”
“Yeah! What does that even do?”
I shrugged. “It makes you feel good.”
“You’ve done it?”
“Yeah.”
“Like you’ve had a butt plug in or you’ve put one in a guy.”