TL;DR I got involved in a cuckolding relationship for the first time. The wife and I would go on to date on the side.
It all started at a company Christmas party. Usually we were a buttoned down type of company: jeans, t-shirts, sweaters, Birkenstocks, you know, that kind of stuff. I was in my 20s when this took place, in my second professional job.
My colleague Jill (my bestie at the job, and confidant) told me that the company Christmas party was super formal, unlike the office, and she even took me out to help me buy a suit. The party itself was as advertised. Most of the people in the office were a LOT older than me, but the vast majority of them cleaned up well: suits, evening gowns, fancy dresses, shiny shoes, high heels, the works.