Hey all, been lurking here for awhile, but thought today’s a good day to start sharing instead! First post, so please be kind with your comments :D
So it all started like 10-ish years ago, where I started following this sex blog of K’s. She had a lot of opinions that I shared, especially around relationships and cheating/sex. I found out she was local as well, so I started emailing her. We became good friends, had long chats on MSN for hours (during work), and started meeting for lunches because it turned out our offices were 10 mins away. We were both attached then, which meant that we very rarely meant outside work.
It was, purely platonic then, we could tell each other everything and there was no judgement. Who we were sleeping with other than our partners, who we wanted to sleep with, how our rendezvous with other people went, nothing was out of bounds.
This went on for years, while we were still dating our then partners. We drifted apart for a bit, when she got married, but still made a point to meet up occasionally for lunch and catch up. Guess growing older (and more sensible) meant we had less to share, since we stopped being stupid and doing crazy things. And then I had to move overseas for work, so catching up outside work was no longer an option.