It took me a while to figure out my biggest “hot areas,” so to speak. Meaning where and how exactly my husband could touch me to get me wet reliably. Not that I had trouble *wanting* sex, but sometimes starting and getting the right amount of turned on and lubricant was tricky. I don’t know, it’s difficult to explain, it just seemed like I always heard people say they really liked to be touched or kissed a certain way and they were instantly turned on, and they just hadn’t happened to me.
Until it did. I always masturbated by rubbing my pussy on the outside of my panties. I like to stimulate my clit, then when I get ready to orgasm press my hand against my vulva and feel the throbbing. I always liked my husband to rub the outside of my panties too, since that’s what I did myself. He had fingered me before, but that night, he did something different. He stuck his hand in my panties and took two fingers, and started slowly rubbing up and down, from my clit to my pussy, back and forth.