My wife and I have been married for just under 4 years, together for about 10 years total. We have one beautiful daughter together. We still have very good sex (maybe not as frequently as we used to, but still good). We also are good at communicating our needs and concerns with eachother, and are both understanding, forgiving, and not the super jealous type. We had talked briefly about having an open relationship several times over the last year or so (usually after several drinks or so), but nothing ever came of it.
This week, however, that changed. We got serious about it and decided to make it official. We laid down some basic rules as a starter, and figured we’d probably be adding some later, changing some we started with and so forth. We talked about keeping our sex life together, having our own individual partners, and also bringing in new partners into the bedroom to play with together.