So let me take you back in time a little bit.
My wife and I have been together since high school. At 29 years of age this means we’ve been together for about 12 years.
As teens she was the instigator in our relationship. I had barely gotten to know her before she began propositioning me. I played the consummate gentleman, denying her advances until we got to know each other a little more. Queue her early repression of he sexual tendencies.
As our relationship grew so did our sex life. We’d fuck like animals through university and college. We’d surprise each other on weekends with naughty outfits and activities. Somewhere in there we began to lose our way. This isn’t to say that our sex life was bad per se, but that it had changed. We were pretty routine with our fun between the sheets. It was great, but there wasn’t much in the way of variety.
Marriage and graduations passed. Our sex life was consistent, but repetitive. Then we decided to try for kids. This kick started some things that had laid dormant for some time. How do you imagine baby making to look? Slow, passionate, and with purpose? Wrong? We began to fuck like we were teens again. High heels, outfits, red lipstick, and experimentation were king as we tried for our first child.