My cousins wife just told me she was in love with me and, I didn’t really know what to say at the moment. Which resulted in me saying nothing. She got out of my bed and seemed upset with me. She kissed me goodbye and said that we needed to talk.
The next morning I received a text very early in the morning saying can we talk? call me. I called her and she said that she wanted this to be nothing more then two people who were attracted to one another having sex and didn’t want to catch feelings, but she ended up catching feeling, telling me that she has lost all attraction to my cousin and is starting to realize what an obnoxious asshole he really is. She said that they have been together for so long she forgot how it’s like to be treated well. I do have feelings for her but I’m definitely not in love and the last thing I want to do is destroy her family. Her kids deserve to grow up with both parents in the same household. I’m thinking to myself that we need to take a break for a bit and let things cool down.