This is a brief account of my time at 26 y/o with my Tamil fwb. It lasted for a year, and it was fantastic.
I met her on adultfriendfinder. She was on there because she was Tamil, traditional home life and all that (if you are Brown then you know!) but this was also a Tamil woman in Toronto in the mid 2000s. So if you know that time and why it was significant for Tamil people….Anyway.
She was curious. Curious about being with a white guy but had to keep it secret as she didn’t want her family to know.
So we are chatting on the messenger and finally I get her email. We have been chatting for a couple days. Nervous about meeting. Knowing the air of sex was in play. She was with only 1 other guy, a brown guy and she said he wasn’t that big and he came too fast and that was it (a shame for her first time). So I tried my best to reassure her and also turn her on through message to the point where she agreed to meet me.