My first two years of college I had a pretty decent sex life.. I was a college athlete, a slightly above average player on a small school soccer team. While I was by no means a big deal, I was in really good shape and looked it. I usually met women at bars or parties and ended up either at their room or mine, which meant that we were always working around roommates and often least a little drunk.
The beginning of my junior year, I met Cary in, of all places, the library. We were both 20yrs old. At a party I probably wouldn’t have noticed her. She had a skinny, boyish figure and wasn’t head-turningly pretty. But Cary had a beautiful head of glossy, black hair, and big, intelligent, black eyes. She was engaging and very smart. Best of all, she was extremely funny, one of the funniest people I’ve ever been around, and her humor always came with a very cute smirk. She’d joke about absolutely anything. She made me laugh a lot, usually by poking fun at me, which I loved, or at herself.