Background
I’m in my mid 20’s and moved to Australia right before covid. I’m not from a western country and felt that non of the Australian girls liked me. (Zero tinder matches)
So I was desperate and low in confidence.
I decided I’m not going to chase any girls instead starting working out.
Fast track 4 months after, I”m in good shape (people can tell I work out) and watched some comedy and my jokes are on point.
***swingers club*****
I went to a swingers club as a single guy, I was the only guy who was able to sleep with these 2 gorgeous girls on that day, I was acting natural without being a creep …I felt that i had a massive confidence. (Other good looking single Australian guys didn’t get lucky that day)
Lesson learnt – This was a huge boost to my ego, and got to think that these girls do like me and I just have to put more effort than a normal westerner.