Okay so this is all wrong story, but I will try to shorth things up. We dated for a while and had beautiful relationship, and broke up for some other, non sexual reasons.
Do not get me wrong. Other than romance and connection, we had some extremely kinky moments. A lot of oral, fingering, humping each other… multuple orgasms for both sides every day.. passion thru the roof.
Anyways, we never had piv sex. She was my first, and so was I her’s. So I thought it was due to our inexperience, and we both decided to give it time. But. She was able to get 4 fingers in. Not me. Lube, foreplay, communication, everything.. just nope, it could not fit, not even close. I was too thick. We tried it many times, and finally gave up on it.
At that time I realised I am above average, but nothing extreme. Like, other than no piv sex, her blowjobs were toothy at first but it got much better with time.
We broke up and she started dating another guy, so I broke all the contact with her. After a while, she started reaching up on every possible social media. At first I ignored, but decided to give friendly talk a try.