Some Backstory here, if you just want the fun part skip to the ****
My wife and I started exploring this lifestyle back in 2016, it started when we were on a break and she was talking to guys on dating apps. When we got back together she told me about how she was excited to have a hook up but was glad we were back together. This turned me on also so we started exploring playing with toys and dirty talk and all that stuff.
A few years later we started looking into going to swinger clubs, she went a couple times alone and we went together a couple times. when she went alone she had kissed a couple girls and played a little with a guy but didn’t enjoy the experience and regretted it, I had unintentionally been putting too much pressure on her to turn our fantasies into a reality and it kinda stopped her enthusiasm for anything other than some exhibitionism with just us.
For years the dirty talk and toy play continued but we stopped going to clubs, we had a few attempts to find someone to play with on reddit and talked about her going to a hotel bar or something, but it never actually turned into anything.
That all changed Friday night. A while back we made a little bet that would result in one of us having to do something for the other, I won and my request was that she go out alone for a few hours on a Friday night, no expectations, just going out and having a good time. She suggested she go out to the swingers club in the town we’ve recently moved to and check it out.
All week leading up to her night out I was a wreck. I was impressed and excited by her confidence and laid back attitude towards going, but i was also terrified of showing my excitement and accidentally pressuring her and ruining her fun. I was scared that this confidence was different and I knew she was likely to finally have sex with someone if the opportunity presented itself.
Friday night she got off work and started getting ready. she put on a short, sexy, black lace slip dress, some heels and went off, leaving me to try to distract myself. She sent me a selfie and let me know she got there safely and told me she was warned by the staff and security that due to the theme of the night there was an unusual amount of single men there. Then i had to wait for three and a half hours to hear anything else.
At 1am I get another selfie from the car of my wife with her tits out. I asked if she was on her way home and she said yes. When my wife walked in she looked so sexy and I was so nervous and excited so I just started making out with her. Then I asked her if anything happened and she said ” Something happened” so I had her tell me the whole night in chronological order so I wouldn’t find out what happened until we got to that part.
**** After wandering around the club and talking to a few guys, a good looking guy approached her and had a cool laid back friendly attitude that really grabbed her attention. He kind of interrupted another guy who my wife was not interested so she appreciated the rescue. They talked and walked around and she told him about our journey and why she was there. He asked her if she wanted to accompany him to a room and they started talking, he asked if she wanted to see his cock and she said yes. It was on the longer side but not as thick as me or any of her toys, but she was really excited by how soft his skin felt. The way she described it, stroking him while they made out was almost addictive because of how soft it was. She said she had to know what it felt like on her tongue, and decided to suck on him without a condom. Due to his length and how thin he was, she said sucking on him was really fun as well. After a few minutes of this, he asked if she was ready to fuck and she asked for him to return the favor first.
Unfortunately, this is where the night got a little less enjoyable for her. The oral was okay but not anything special, and after a few minutes he decided that was enough and asked if she wanted him to get a condom. He asked how she liked to be fucked and she said that she wanted it hard and rough that night which got him very excited. After he put the condom on they fucked missionary, then in a modification of missionary that she described as him doing like a frog jump. She said she wanted it harder so he would thrust hard once or twice and then slow down again. He threw one of her legs to the side to fuck in the Bow position, one of our favorites, and a few minutes later he came. She was a little disappointed with how he underdelivered on the hard fuck she had requested, but she was okay with maybe trying again in a little bit until he started moping around and apologizing for coming too fast. This was a turn off for her and so she kindly said it was okay and excused herself to the bar.
Then she spent almost an hour trying to find another person to play with but the night was already winding down and no one she was interested in before was still there, so she came home.
I was so proud of her for putting herself out there, for taking control of her night and for not forcing anything for me or anyone else. While she was gone I was excited and scared, and when she was talking me through it I was turned on. We played around for hours after that and really enjoyed each other in a way we rarely make time for anymore. It was a really great time and the activities at the club were barely even thought of or mentioned, we just focused on us.
Now that I’ve had a few days to reflect, I’m glad it happened finally but it also wasn’t all I had built it up to be in my mind. Ultimately we are both happy with how the night went and while we will probably have a similar night again or try to have a swap/threesome, we’re happy to slow things down a little now that we have some closure I guess. If she wants to try again in any form, going out alone or having me watch or whatever, I’m down but the thirst has been quenched for sure. I love her so much and I’m glad I was able to finish her night by giving her what she had been asking for.
Sorry for the long post and I’m happy to answer any questions or I could ask her to answer if anyone wants. Thanks!