I’d moved jobs to London to start fresh. It was a senior position, my own office with a PA sat outside and a new team. Life was fairly monastic, I’d work, run, go to the gym and then back to the hotel I was living in. Bad relationships and too much time in the BDSM world I was glad for the simplicity.
So, the team invites me out to dinner and as the boss I say I’m happy to tag along, better than the other option of my book and endlessly edging. I end up being sat between a couple of randoms and one a blonde lady, attractive very curvey and blue eyes, friend of one of the workers sparks up a conversation. By now the wine is flowing and i realise she’s an over sharer. She’s talking about how much sex she has with how many guys in what position etc etc. I just turn around and coldly say “your problem is you have no discipline” the meal stopped. Pin drop moment. Then people keep eating and drinking. She keeps my eye contact and replies “I’ve never been trained” well all I could do was smile.