I made a throw away account because I need some advice. I will spare some of the details but me and my husband share a reddit account and I don’t want to post it on there for him to see. Our relationship has been a bit patchy to say the least, but I found a few things out last year that upset me but I’m working through them. Or trying to anyway. I made the shared reddit account because I discovered he had an account he would hide from me. He would get nudes from people send nudes ect. and watch porn among other things. He would speak with anyone and everyone, men too.
He had other sites he would visit and his profile said he was bisexual so I brought that up with him and he just told me he got more attention that way, but I wasnt so sure. Him talking to other people broke my trust. After a few arguments he said he will stop and deleted it, cool. But after looking through his phone any chance he wasn’t looking I found a new account made just two week after he deleted the old one. So trying to be understanding and reasonable first before irrational, I said we should make an account together, talk to people, post photos together. I did it because I wanted to be like the girls we was talking to. And we did, it was great, I posted photos but I loved it for all the wrong reasons.