Years ago my wife had a coworker that lead us down the cuckolding path. Now here we are, with all kinds of thoughts on it but can’t find the same thing.
He slowly befriended her and that lead to me meeting him at work functions. Next thing you know we are all friends and he is in our lives. There was never a “wham bam” moment where it was cuckolding. It was more of a slow burn. Innocent flirting at first. Then more obvious flirting that just seemed erotic. Angie or I never stopped it because it just seemed fun and erotic. Looking back I feel this was either his plan or he saw this and exploited it. He was never an ass and would slowly push things but then back off. Such as… One time we all went out together to a bar. He was dancing and flirting with her, hands on places and such. I really felt like a third wheel and I feel they noticed this. I wasn’t upset but was like wow. No one talked bout it. Maybe if we had talked about I would have been negative enough it would have stopped. After that night we never talked about it and it didn’t happen for awhile. Like he wanted us to yearn for it until he would do it again. And that’s exactly what happened. It was like an addiction. I wanted to see them dancing, I wanted to see her excited, I wanted to feel like a third wheel. I really feel like he sensed this in Angie and I. It was part of his power play.