I’m posting here maybe asking for a bit of advice, or wondering if anyone else has ever been in a similar situation.
The wife and I have been married close to 5 years now. We’re incredibly transparent, with an amazing and healthy sex life, sharing all our fantasies early on and finding them more than compatible. There’s nothing we don’t know about each other. She’s an amazingly attractive woman, so much so that it’s always a bit surprising to friends and strangers that she’d say yes to a guy like me – all in good fun of course. She just has the warmest aura about her, and everyone picks up on it. Since I married her so quickly after dating, a bit under a year, I never got much time to spend with her family. Both her parents lived out in Colorado, and her brother was a crossfit coach in LA, a pretty successful one at that. When they invited us out to spend the holidays at their place, there wasnt much room to deny them. I felt obligated to take the time off of work, and Brenda was ecstatic. She told me I’d love them, and they were all sweet people. When I’d ask about her brother, however, she was not at all short for words. He was the kindest man she’d ever known. He was the handsomest Jack any girl could dream of, and had the firmest character you could imagine. He was more than just a brother to her, he was her best friend, she would say. I couldn’t help but notice a tingle in her eye as she described him. So the wife had a bit of a sibling crush on her older brother, no big deak. I even thought it was cute. When we finally got there, I’d soon learn a crush was really putting it mildly.