First off, much apologies for such a long post but I couldn’t have explained my situation any better had I tried to keep this post short.
Since the day me and my husband had a threesome with his best friend, my entire life has changed possibly in the most positive way ever. Me and my love have agreed that we are completely fine with shifting towards an open marriage. Neither of us have any problem with the other sleeping with someone else, unless it’s being done our behind the back. We as partners give their love freely and are not property. No one should own anyone. To me trust is as important as sex in a relationship and making sure that your partner’s needs, sexual or of any other kind, are always being fulfilled.
This fulfillment of needs in our opinion is what makes marriages successful, but what happens when partners are unable to quench eachother’s needs? This is where it’s important for partners to be honest and accept their weaknesses so that they can strive towards making their partner happy, regardless of all the compromises we might have to make. Therefore, this is why about 3 months ago, we decided that we will maintain an open and honest relation, while making sure eachother’s needs are being fulfilled no matter what.