Hi, I am a dark skinned Dutch guy of 27 years old and single and want to share an experience I had. About a month ago I found a Facebook group for people in search of sperm donors. There I contacted a 31 year old guy, let’s call him Hans, through an appeal on the group. He told me he had been married with a Surinamese girl of 28 years old. They were trying to get pregnant for two years but so far unsuccessful.
They had done what they could: naturally it wasn’t working and a sperm test came out negative, his swimmers weren’t moving. They had explored an IVF journey but weren’t able to due to the high costs. The remaining solution was to search for a donor online and try to inseminate themselves. That way the donor had to ejaculate in a cup and bring it over to the couple to inject the sperm through a syringe, specially made for insemination. That’s how I got in the picture and after talking for a while through messenger, we decided to meet, for now without any expectations from both sides.