Writing this as kind of a half journal post so i dont forget this, half story kinda way.
Broke up with my girlfriend a couple weeks ago. Long distance, didn’t really work out. I really really wanted a fuck, was on the apps for a couple weeks just basically wanting to get with anyone (consensually, obviously). One girl matched with me and messaged me, she seemed super into me and asked me “so what time do you want to meet tomorrow at _________ park for a walk?” I said “can we do it right now” (i was pretty high and horny), she said “lol no lets do tomorrow”.
I counted down the hours to our meetup – we met for boba first, hung out, then walked to the park and talked. I was kind of on my best behavior, flirting, being funny, really just trying to charm her. Asked her about her life, listened, asked follow up questions, etc. At the park, we found a bench and cuddled for a while.