So some background. I’m 22F, my partner is 28M, we’ve been together now almost 3 years. We met when I was 19 and he was 25, he had messaged me on OkCupid (I was looking for casual sex only) very simply with “Hey, want to get lunch tomorrow?” Checked out his profile, he was beautiful and had a very normal, if not somewhat nerdy (which I love :D) summary and all. So we arrange to meet the next day before work.
We meet, start to have lunch, eventually talk strays into sexual territory, he tells me he’s had one girlfriend who was his partner and he “didn’t really want to talk about it.” I eventually (as in a couple months into the relationship) find out he was a virgin and made that up because he was embarrassed. Fast forward a little, things were going well, we were really clicking. I told him “I don’t think anyone’s home right now… Do you want to come to my house and fuck me?” He turns bright red “Excuse me, I need to use the bathroom.” Apparently he had called his best friend to ask him what to do!! Who told him wrap it before you tap it, have fun kiddo, haha.