So without giving away too much about my age, I reached the age of sexual curiosity at the perfect time. Broadband had just become a thing, porn was available seeminly on tap, and MSN messenger was at its peak.
Back then it seemed people would just randomly add you or vice versa so your contact list ended up being a handful of friends and then 100s of strangers. Anyway, I got chatting to a girl somehow and for a few months it was pretty tame, normal stuff. Type of music we like, what subjects we were studying etc. What fascinated me about this girl the most though is she was happy to admit to me that she was bi. Being reasonably anonymous I guess she felt comfortable sharing the secret.
Similarly, I had been experimenting with a close male friend and I’d never told anyone about it. Taking this as my chance to get some perspective on it I told her. This naturally led to lots of conversations about what we liked about guys and girls, what we’d done with either, what we wanted to try etc. And pretty soon we almost exclusively spoke about sex / general dirty things.