I just generally enjoy being the bottom/sub when it comes to the sex between us. I like giving up control and pleasing him, and he always makes sure to please me too.
But last weekend, I was over at his place and we had a bit of a serious chat about something private I won’t disclose here. It got to the point where he got upset, angry. Not to me of course, but just the situation. Eventually, something in me just comes up and says I should take control. So the first thing I do is kiss him. Softly. His mood of course improves slightly and he thanks me, but then I kiss him again. And again, until we’re making out. Eventually I stand up and say “Come on” and look to his bedroom. We kiss all the way there and I’m already topless and braless by the time we step in.