For years, I [M33] have been encouraging my wife [F33] to embrace how attractive she is. She isn’t “model hot,” she doesn’t have huge tits…she is just a serious cutie that takes care of herself and is now a woman in her 30s that looks like the type of woman you would want to be across a dinner table from.
I also love hearing my friends comment on her looks. Since we started dating 8 years ago, I’ve subtly encouraged them to tell me what they think about her looks. So I know what friends think she is not, which ones say she isn’t their type, etc. Likewise, I’ve always told her what my friends say about her, and she has grown accustomed to hearing me tell her about how lucky my friends think I am. About three years ago, I sent a few friends a picture of her in a tiny bikini while on vacation, and she didn’t seem to mind. Ever since then, my friends knew that if I was on vacation, they were going to get a picture of my wife in a swimsuit…they love it.