So my wife and I have been married for 7 going on 8 years now. And she has always been a free spirit. For her, if it makes you happy as long as your not doing anything to destroy what we’ve built together then we are Gucci. And if it is it’s not the end of the world if we’ve run our course. So when it comes to sex she’s actually a bit closer to asexual in identity. She does get pleasure from sex sometimes but once she hits her climax, that’s it. She could go for months without any and be good.
Me, I’m extremely sexual. And also repressed. Not the best combination you would think but it works. Fast forward to my birthday last month. I had a convo with her and she tells me, if you want to have sex with other women it’s cool with me as long as you aren’t catching anything, making replicas of yourself all over the place, and still taking care of business. And then she says if you want a threesome you put it together and I’m game.