Author: vis_and_ramin

Did something I [24F] never thought I’d do – Slept with the male stripper after my friend’s bachelorette party. [FM]

Hi! This particular event happened last Friday. One of my friends was getting married, and it was her bachelorette night – my friends thought it would be a good idea to book a male stripper for fun. To be honest, it wasn’t the first time I was at a bachelorette party with a male stripper, since one of my friends who married last year had the same idea, but nothing particularly interesting happened at that one, although it was a lot of fun nevertheless.

We rented a house at the perimeter of a nearby city for that night. The guy that my friends booked was called Taurus (very funny), apparently he had a lot of great reviews from previous clients. We popped open a bottle of wine before he arrived, but we didn’t drink a whole lot before he showed up, maybe about a cup each.

Taurus was exactly as we hoped would be. Really tall, handsome, with short black hair, bright green eyes, slightly tanned skin, and in amazing shape. He was very courteous, too, which we appreciated. He asked us if we had any particular limits, or requests, and after that got settled, he told us to settle down on the couch and wait a couple minutes. Read more »

My first time swinger experience as a “unicorn” with a couple – a success story! [Group]

I made a post on r/swingers in the recent past from a throwaway about being interested in trying out the lifestyle, but not really knowing where I should begin, or what I should even watch out for. I received a lot of great advice! People were very helpful.

I began with making an R4R post on reddit. I was clear about my inexperience, what I was looking for, what my likes and dislikes were – and I eventually started chatting with this very pleasant, courteous, and fun couple. After verifying each other’s identity, we eventually made plans to meet up at a local café on Friday.

I was quite anxious, admittedly, since it was my first time of doing anything like this. What if they were rude and forceful in real life? What if they didn’t look anything like they did in their pictures? What if they had some sort of ulterior motive? These were the thoughts circling around in my mind, but thankfully, I had no reason to worry. James and Sarah (not their real names, of course) were just like they said they were, and just like I expected them to be. Our first date was mostly spent with getting to know each other a little better, and with them talking about their experiences and answering my questions. I appreciated that they didn’t only talk about their amazing experiences, but about the ones too that didn’t go so well, too – they were refreshingly honest. I kissed both of them goodbye, and we made plans to meet up again next week. Read more »