The first date of a summer fling [FM] [Mild CNC]

This summer I [M30] met a girl. She [F26] wrote to me on a bdsm site I frequent (think fetlife) and we hit it off almost immediately. She was gorgeous in her pictures, as well funny, bantering, smart and very, very kinky. Our primary mutual kink was cnc/rapeplay (her being a brat), but we talked about several other kinks we were interested in, including anal, sleep sex, fear play, etc. Since her main kink was to be used like a toy for her partner’s pleasure, she outright said that if we ended up sleeping together I would have carte blanche to do whatever I wanted with her (within reason, obviously).

As you might imagine, I was quite excited to meet her. However, since I was in the middle of moving from one city to another (she lived about an hour outside the city I was moving to), it took a few weeks until we managed to find a date that suited us both. We finally decided to meet up after work on a Friday night. Since this was our first time meeting and she would have to catch the train home at about 10 pm, I suggested just going to a nearby bar for a few drinks to see if we would hit it off. She instead suggested we go play pool, and while I am a pretty poor pool player, I was obviously not gonna decline.