Author: very_hard_spanker

[MF] an afternoon on the couch [consensual BDSM] [gonemild]

**TLDR:** I delivered a punishment and then fooled around on the couch.

I’ve talked in the past about one of my play partners, Linda (see my post history, especially [“it was only a kiss”](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/724eoq/it_was_only_a_kiss_it_was_only_a_kiss_mf_kink/)). As it turns out last weekend she made plans to play with someone new, which, hey, good for her… except that she didn’t tell her friends she’d arrived, or that she was okay, and that’s a big no-no in the BDSM community. I got frantic texts from her friends asking if I’d heard from her, which I hadn’t. Fortunately, she messaged them pretty much right after that, and me too.

But her friends were really worried about her, and I decided she needed to be reminded that it’s okay to meet new people, but not to worry your friends.

Let me pause for some physical data here. Linda is 5’2, about 200#, but curvy and stacked with *all* the hips and a big, round butt. Yeah, she could probably stand to lose a little weight, but I love her curves. She has a bright smile, long brown hair, and brown eyes. She’s 42 and married, and her husband knows we play together. I’m 6′, a BHM, shaved head, beard, mustache, blue eyes. Read more »

[MF] my wife, her mouth, her hands, her orgasms

**TLDR: Kissing, face-fucking, vibrating, and stroking, all for the first time in a long time.**

It’s been more than two months since my wife and I have been intimate with each other. She had surgery in December, but even before then we hadn’t done anything. It wasn’t for lack of wanting to, but sometimes people drift a little and have to do a course-correction. We started that on Friday night — some kissing and touching, and she came four times before I misjudged the situation and we lost the flow. Still, I like making her come, so even if there was no reciprocation it wasn’t a problem.

I suppose you might want to know what my wife looks like, for the record: five-ten, curvy, pale, with DD-cup breasts and a soft tummy and *all* the hips. Her hair is long, straight, and brown, and her eyes are greenish. I’m six feet tall, also curvy, with a shaved head, beard, blue eyes and glasses. She’s in her early 30s, I’m in my late 30s. So there you go.

Onto the story. Read more »

[MF] backseat drivers (contains consensual spanking)

**TLDR:** I’ve spanked seven different women in the backseats of five different vehicles over the past 23 years.

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**Mazda 626**

The first time I gave a backseat spanking, it was in my Mazda 626. My girlfriend and I had already experimented with spanking, but when you’re in high school, you have to make do with what you can. I distinctly remember parking at a park near her house and turning her backside bright-red. I won’t go into detail beyond that because of our ages, but it did happen more than once.

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**Toyota Prius 2G**

You’d be surprised how much room there is in the back of a second-generation Prius — you know, after they stopped looking like Tercels but before the taillights started looking ridiculous. Read more »

“It was only a kiss, it was only a kiss” [MF] [kink] consensual light BDSM

Background info: I am 39, married, poly, and kinky.

A few months ago, I reached out on Fetlife to someone who seemed interested in what I’m interested in, and who I found attractive. We chatted a bit, met for lunch, decided we wanted to play, and had a playdate. It was great. We’ve talked almost every day since then.

Last night we were both at a play party, although we weren’t planning to play with each other; I had a scene planned, and so did she. But there was casual touch, and hugging, and gentle hair pulling as we hung out.

About two hours before her scene was scheduled to start, she asked me if I wanted to play. We negotiated to do light impact — just something a little fun to keep her in the right mindset for her heavier scene later. We went into the dungeon proper; it was early, and we were the only ones there. Read more »

[MF] …but we also fucked (consensual bdsm and rough play)

Last Saturday night [I went to the dungeon with my new friend Lily](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/6bd5h0/mf_a_lily_in_the_dungeon_consensual_kink_public/), and we had a lovely time. I thought I would spend Sunday doing chores, playing games with my wife (we’re poly; she knows about Lily), and watching TV.

We did do all those things. But we also fucked, which I wasn’t expecting.

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A brief warning: this story contains [DD/lg](https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=ddlg). If this is a problem for you, turn back now. All participants are over the age of 30.

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A little background: my wife and I have had a quasi-dead bedroom for some time now. She’s had some medical issues (mostly I think it’s anxiety but she’s going to the doctor this week to find out for sure) that have prevented us from having a healthy sex life — and neither of us are very happy about that. On top of that, I apparently “forgot” the right way to spank her, so we’ve been idly looking for a top for her. We’re hoping that a friend of ours will work out, but he’s always busy and not too dependable, even if he is a great top.

But I digress. Read more »

[MF] a lily in the dungeon (consensual kink, public play)

Despite being actively kinky all of her adult life, Lily — the girl from my post “[into the woods](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/69ni95/mf_into_the_woods_kink_semirough_public/)” — had never been to a BDSM club. It was time to change that.

For those of you who don’t want to read that story: Lily (not her real name) is a submissive masochist into rough play, breath play, spanking, and so on. She’s 5’4 with brown hair dyed red and long on top but shaved on the sides; she has light-brown eyes and cat-eye glasses, an adorable little septum piercing, and a smile to kill for. Oh, and a wonderfully curvy figure (she says she’s 170 pounds) with a perfectly spankable backside. She’s 27. As for me: I’m 38, six feet tall, bald (shaved), with blue eyes, glasses, and a beard. I qualify as a BHM, if that matters.

Lily has two jobs; one is as a waitress. Even though she was scheduled to [clopen](https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=clopen) Saturday night and Sunday morning, she still wanted to go, so we firmed up our plans. However, as usual, something got in the way. In this case, it was her last table at work: a large table, all of them with separate checks. But she did finally escape at 10:30 and head toward my place. Read more »

[MF] into the woods (kink, semi-rough, public)

Never let it be said that my friends don’t do nice things.

I have this friend who helped introduce me into the local kink scene where I live. Since then we have become fairly close, and I hang out with her and the other local folks on a semiregular basis.

One day a couple of weeks ago I got this text from my friend. “My friend Lily and I were talking and she wants someone to spank her the way she wants it, so I recommended she reach out to you. Is that okay?”

(Lily is of course not her real name.)

I told my friend that would be fine — after running it by my wife first, of course — and Lily messaged me on Fetlife. We started to talk, and it sounded like we would get along quite well. (It didn’t hurt that she was quite attractive in her photos as well — five-three, curvy, with dyed-red hair shaved on the sides — natural color medium brown — and cat-eye glasses.) We set up a time to meet — two or three weeks after we started talking — and that day was today. Read more »

[MF] First AOL Meeting, First 20-something, First Contact, First Puddle (very long)

(If you want to skip straight to the sex, scroll down to the first break. This is a long one.)

Back in the late 90s, I thought I was a god on the nascent internet. I hung out in all the right AOL chatrooms, visited all the right websites, and sysop’d all the right BBSes in my local area. I was 18, and I’d been reading erotica text files and hosting pornographic pictures on my own BBS for years already. That plus some built-in predilections led me to know that I was into spanking.

I also didn’t have a ton of friends at college. My roommate was cool, and there were some other folks I hung out with, but by and large I spent most of my time online. And, as you did with AOL back in those days, you would see people come into a chatroom, you’d check their profile, and you’d send them a message, hoping to start a conversation.

Even back then I’d learned from other women on my local BBSes that men online were generally assholes who only asked “A/S/L” (kids, ask your parents) and treated women like crap. I tried not to be that way, and I guess it worked, because one October evening I clicked on a profile that interested me, said hello, and struck up a conversation. Read more »

[MF] a week of spanking and sex: Sunday (pics)

Angela: five-six, about 150 pounds, around 30 years old. Long brown hair, dark brown eyes. Soft all over. Her breasts are probably a C or D cup, but I don’t remember exactly. She has children, and when she’s naked she’s completely unselfconscious about the changes that having children made to her body. I think she’s gorgeous and sexy. Oh, and she’s a squirter, too. Every single time.

Me: Six feet tall, about 290 when this occurred, mid-30s, brown hair, blue eyes. My hands are pretty large. That’s about all you need to know.

[Tuesday](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/58jemg/mf_a_week_of_spanking_and_sex_tuesday_pic/) | [Wednesday and Thursday] (https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/58ptvi/mf_a_week_of_spanking_and_sex_wednesday_and/) | [Friday](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/58ybt1/mf_a_week_of_spanking_and_sex_friday_pics/) | [Saturday](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/5971wu/mf_a_week_of_spanking_and_sex_saturday_pics/)

I really wanted to have sex with Angela one more time, and had plans to do that when we got home, but Angela had other ideas.

“I want you to spank me until I safe-word, or until I’m crying too hard to say my safe-word.”

The sheer amount of trust in that statement is staggering, and given that I thought the week wasn’t going as well as it could have, I never thought she would ask for that. But she did, and all thoughts of sex exited my brain. I could have sex with other people, but not many of them would make that request. Read more »

[MF] a week of spanking and sex: Saturday (pics)

Angela: five-six, about 150 pounds, around 30 years old. Long brown hair, dark brown eyes. Soft all over. Her breasts are probably a C or D cup, but I don’t remember exactly. She has children, and when she’s naked she’s completely unselfconscious about the changes that having children made to her body. I think she’s gorgeous and sexy. Oh, and she’s a squirter, too. Every single time.

Me: Six feet tall, about 290 when this occurred, mid-30s, brown hair, blue eyes. My hands are pretty large. That’s about all you need to know.

[Tuesday](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/58jemg/mf_a_week_of_spanking_and_sex_tuesday_pic/) | [Wednesday and Thursday] (https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/58ptvi/mf_a_week_of_spanking_and_sex_wednesday_and/) | [Friday](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/58ybt1/mf_a_week_of_spanking_and_sex_friday_pics/)

Angela had never been to a BDSM club, and I had promised I’d take her there — and that we’d play in public, if she felt comfortable.

But that didn’t stop us from playing in the morning, too. My notebook tells me that I started out with Angela over my knee, giving her “lots” (double-underlined) of hand spanks through the cute flannel shorts she bought as a souvenir the day before, and then 20 swats with the bath brush, also through her shorts. Read more »