We had been together for a few years and loved the idea of bringing another party into the bedroom but were both a bit nervous. She was definitely more hesitant but very excited by the idea. Drinks usually help to lubricate the situation for her.
We actually had been conversing with someone from a swinger website that was hosting a small house party and we thought it would be a nice way to dip our toes into the action. We got a hotel room in the area, then drove the couple of hours away to have dinner on our own first, then meet everyone at the house party.
We got to the party and everyone was very nice, but a lot older than the crowd we were expecting, and she didn’t quite feel comfortable and wanted to leave. We politely thanked everyone and decided to head back the hotel for the night. We stopped at a bar right next to the hotel for some drinks before the evening ended.