True story.
I worked at a restaurant in college. My boss (male) was mid 40s, balding and 50 lbs overweight. He had a great personality and all the staff liked him. I was 19. Thin yet well built with a cocky personality (this has mellowed with time).
I often closed down the restaurant with him at night and we were the last ones out. After he would finish counting cash and checking everything, he would chat with me. Over time, he kept turning the conversation to his wife, asking me things like: “Have you seen my wife? She’s really hot – You would like her…And she would love you.” And so she was… She would stop in the restaurant. She was 45, tall blonde w/ long hair that really took care of herself. Great smile. He shared that when they were dating in college, they had been to a sex party at a frat house where she had sex with several guys. Anyway – She was much better looking than him.