My wife and I have been together for over 20 years. Like any long-term couple, our sex life has been full of twists and turns, but now that we’re into our 40’s and have learned about each other’s (and our own!) bodies, the sex has been pretty damned good. For many years, sex was generally satisfying but also pretty “vanilla”. We’ve always enjoyed our lovemaking, but never felt ALL that comfortable discussing sex, each of us being just a little shy about expressing our desires. I’ve always had a bit of a stronger sex drive, but she also has her moments where she shows her inner minx and sometimes really takes control when the mood is right.
Over the past few years, I’ve gotten into prostate play during my private masturbation sessions. I started with an Aneros (a couple different ones), and while they were nice, I never hit “the big O” from anal stimulation alone. For a year or so, I tried to learn how to get that hands-free orgasm I’d read about, and while I’d had lots of good sensations, I was never able to get over the edge without jackin’ it. While my wife was aware of my toys, I kept them to myself, and she was content to let that be “my thing”.