This isn’t exactly the most erotic story but I wanted to share.
Among the people I talk to not many know that I’m in an open relationship (which is also long distance). It’s not as though I’m hiding it out of shame, and I don’t actively avoid the topic that is my girlfriend, but I don’t like explaining the arrangement we have 50x times when I can simply not tell people.
So when I use tinder I just make it clear that I’m not looking for a relationship, in fact a lot of the people I hook up with at my school don’t even know that I have a girlfriend, they probably just assume that Danielle (my girlfriend) is a fuckbuddy who attends a neighboring college and can therefore only visit on weekends.
Some time ago, around October, one of the girls I was seeing regularly (who I happened to be getting quite close with) asked me if I’d ever want to start a formal relationship wit her. Keep in mind, she and I are friendly but at the time nowhere near the level of personal intimacy to warrant a relationship. We were physical and that is all, but I guess semi-frequent sex and post-sex cuddling will do that to someone.