My wife and I have been talking about opening up romantically or otherwise inviting others into our bed for a year or so. In the realm of polyamory, we are a rare and fabled pairing of a Unicorn and a Pegasus.
My wife is tall (5’8″), long brunette hair, trimmed downstairs, B cups, long legs, and an ass that I love. Her carpet matches the drapes. I’m 6’0″, 200lbs, at the beginning stages of a dad-bod. I’m clean shaven (my face, I trim my bush), brown/blonde hair. I’m also rare on Reddit in that I am entirely average downstairs, with a slight upward curve (sorry, no 8.5 inch massive dong here).
We had never been in a legitimate threesome before (she had a petting and make out session with two other women – a story suitable for r/hotpast). After a lot of talking, and fantasizing, we reached a point where we decided to create profiles on OK Cupid. We were looking primarily for friends in the LGBTQ / poly communities, with the potential for more than friendship.
My wife had already been with another woman, and knew she was bi. I had never been with a guy, but was definitely bi-curious. I was open to her talking to either gender.