Edit: This ended up getting quite long and I had to actually write about a separate escapade first to lay the groundwork for the threesome. Will indicate when the MFF happens.
Our recent shared milestone of a year of lockdown got me thinking about how much I miss spontaneous, unplanned sex; especially with someone I’ve only just met that day. Even before the pandemic, it was hard to imagine that happening anymore. Everyone’s gotten so comfortable planning them through dating apps or reddit personals that even something that’s supposed to be wild and spontaneous had a structure applied to it.
Seems crazy to think about how much time was invested in all the swiping, vetting, ghosting, one-night-stands, or fwbs that eventually fizzled out amicably (or not so amicably). Not to say that there weren’t some good returns on that investment over the years; I’m just nostalgic for the moments that developed in a more spur of the moment fashion.