My [25M] Polish Gonewild friend [22F] visited me for the first time this past week [MF]

I’ve posted how I’ve made meaningful friendships with women who’ve posted on Gonewild over the years and how I’ve even met up with them (going as far as Germany), but this the first time I’ve actually hosted someone from abroad.

Full disclosure, the only action I got during the trip was us going to the Lego store and building sets together while watching 90-Day Fiance commentary videos on YouTube, so there aren’t any *sexy* deets that I’m withholding.

I don’t know a lot of Polish people (or really know the culture really well) so it was *interesting* to spend a lot of time with her and to hear her thoughts on how life here compares to Poland, especially since this was also the first time she’s ever been out of Poland.

Some memorable events:

– I brought her into my office to meet my coworkers, only for my manager to roast the fuck out of me

– Her excitement and awe when she saw famous American establishments like Hooters (lmao) and Taco Bell

– Us talking about online dating, only for the girl who ghosted me on Tinder to suddenly text me out of nowhere (she probably saw my TikTok about it tbh) to confirm she did ghost me

Just a quick wholesome post about me [M] and my friends [F] I’ve made off GoneWild

*This isn’t really a “sexy” post per-say, but rather I wanted to document all the wholesome experiences I’ve had with GoneWild. With that said, sorry if that’s not the content you were looking for lol.*

I have definitely spent an embarrassing amount of time browsing r/gonewild these past few years as a lurker, but I think I’m in good company here. For all the years of lurking in college and in my post-college life (though not as frequently), I’ve come to realize that this one subreddit was responsible for some really amazing things in my life:

1. I lost my virginity to someone who posted on the subreddit
2. A poster let me visit her abroad and hosted me for a few days
3. Some of my best friends are people I’ve met from the subreddit

I really am grateful for the friends I’ve made along the way (many of them don’t post anymore), and it’s nice to hear from them once in a while if we lose touch since everyone is all over the world. Hell, one of them invited me to her wedding (pending if it actually happens): “If I’ll ever get married and we will still be talking, I invite you to my wedding bitch” [she’s Polish].