A brief introduction about me: I am not a writer and sometimes I can get too descriptive on random bullshit, as that’s what I feel helps best describe my mental state. I’m 33, Asian, 5’9″/150 average build. I am married (don’t judge) and quickly following my marriage, dead bedroom ensued. I’ve been on reddit perusing ads but to no success (I had previously met another redditor, which was a buzzkill) and then along came this fellow redditor…
I’ve spotted her posting a few /r/r4r and /r/r4rasian ads before and my PMs went un-replied. However, this time I decided to mix things up and directly comment in her ad to start a friendly conversation before sending a PM. When I got that orange envelope, a fist-pump ensued. We exchanged KIKs and began chatting. It started out as very vanilla exchanges and just feeling each other out. I did not want to seem to eager, but deep down I knew there was a high probability as she has posted quite a few GW submissions along with posting in r4rasian (to see a non-Asian wanting an Asian is rare… and I do consider myself decent-looking but never had much success with non-Asians).